Non-borrowing Spouse in Reverse Mortgages: Know Your Rights & Protect Your Family

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In 2021, the Federal Housing Administration (FHA, a division of HUD) proactively expanded protections for individuals married to the borrower on a reverse mortgage loan secured by their primary residence, also called “non-borrowing spouses.” The FHA added these protections so that a surviving spouse had viable options to remain living in the home if the borrowing spouse needed a care facility (for more than 12 months) or in the event of their husband or wife’s death. Keep reading below to learn about “qualified non-borrowing spouse” and how you can be sure you’re covered.

Important notice: what you are about to read applies only to Home Equity Conversion Mortgages (HECM) loans. It does not apply to private (“proprietary”) reverse mortgages — speak to your reverse mortgage officer to understand the difference or read our article on age 55 reverse mortgages.

What is a reverse mortgage?

A reverse mortgage (which is most commonly an FHA-insured Home Equity Conversion Mortgage, or HECM for short) is a financial instrument that allows homeowners 62+ years old to access the untapped equity in their homes that has appreciated over the years.

Note that in 2021, several non FHA-insured lenders lowered the minimum eligible age for reverse mortgage borrowers to age 55 (called a “proprietary” or “private” reverse mortgage). This option is available in 19 states and Washington, DC.

There are several ways to receive the funds from a reverse mortgage (RM), which depend on the borrower’s needs. It’s outside the scope of this article but we will write about it soon! Since home prices likely increase over the next 10 years, banks offer a number of differing RM products.

There are no required payments for a reverse mortgage because the interest due and payable on the mortgage is deferred and added back onto the existing loan balance. A reverse mortgage loan is not typically due and payable until the reverse mortgage holder dies, sells the subject property, or moves out of the mortgaged property for a defined period.

What does non-borrowing spouse mean?

A non-borrowing spouse (NBS) is defined as a married individual that has been excluded as a borrower on their spouse’s reverse mortgage.

Reasons why a spouse would be excluded from a home equity conversion mortgage (HECM)

A husband or wife could be excluded from a reverse mortgage loan because they fail to meet the mortgage criteria’s age requirement of 62 – which is the most common reason. However, it is possible that a married couple decides to exclude the younger wife or husband (even if they qualify) as a means to increase the approvable loan amount.

The reality is, when determining a mortgage loan amount, age is a factor. Younger borrowers are offered a smaller amount as they are likely to live longer. So, leaving a younger borrower off the mortgage would likely result in an increase in the borrowing spouse’s principal limit.

Do both spouses have to be on a reverse mortgage?

If a married couple wants a reverse mortgage loan, but one is not yet 62, the younger spouse’s age would disqualify the couple’s eligibility. To qualify, the younger spouse will have to be omitted from the loan, because the older spouse qualifies alone as a solo reverse mortgage borrower on the loan .

With the federal government’s 2014 added protections for non-borrowing spouses (noted below), the need to have both spouses on the reverse mortgage becomes a less relevant issue.

Why does the non-borrowing spouse reverse mortgage need protection?

Many couples failed to recognize the potentially catastrophic consequences of having only one spouse on the mortgage loan. If they selected the one-borrowing-spouse option, it left the surviving borrower vulnerable (to remain in the house) upon the death of the last borrower.

What happens if a spouse dies with a reverse mortgage?

Prior to 2014, upon the death of the last borrower, the surviving spouse had two options –

In other words, a widow or widower continues to occupy the property if they had the money or the ability to qualify for a loan. The problem was for those widows and widowers who didn’t qualify or have the savings to satisfy the now due and payable loan.

2014 – the first non-borrowing spouse solution

HUD and the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) enacted certain HECM guideline changes for non-borrowing spouses they defined as “qualified.” Under the 2014 rule, if a couple with a spouse not yet 62 wanted a reverse mortgage, the spouse who is not old enough would be legally designated as the “non-borrowing spouse.”

These new policies allowed widows and widowers to take advantage of the HECM’s deferral period for payments. In other words, if you qualified, you could remain living in the home upon the death of the last borrower if you complied with certain HUD guidelines.

HUD defined a qualified non-borrowing spouse as –

To take advantage of this new 2014 rule and live in the home, the non-borrowing spouse had to: